Soulmate Library

Explore enlightening articles designed to help you connect with your Soulmate!

Single and Dating

Spotting A Liar Just Got Easier…

Spotting a liar in your midst isn’t necessarily the easiest task --- that is unless you know the telltale signs to look for when...

Spice Things Up with Spontaneity

Predictability, while comforting, can make relationships a bit dull. When you’re willing to be spontaneous - and I don’t just mean sexually - you’ll...

10 Red Flags that He’s Not the One

There are people we meet who we want, with all our hearts, to be The One. We can see our lives together clearly --- all...

Why Did He Ghost You?

Ghosting might just be the most insidious trend to come out of dating in a while. There's nothing quite like the experience of having...

5 Essential Rules For Dating After Divorce

Life after divorce can feel like an episode from The Twilight Zone, as surreal as it is distressing. At first, you may even feel...

5 Signs You’re Being Catfished

Online dating services and internet social media usage such as Facebook and Instagram are at an all time high, making meeting new people much...

Common Relationship Mistakes

5 Relationship Mistakes to Absolutely Avoid

Relationships take work and effort, but along the journey of making things work we also make some mistakes. Some mistakes are easy to bounce...

Relationship Burnout: Get Balanced

Love is in the air and all you want to do is spend your days romancing with your man. You feel fantastic and you...

Things Women Do That Men Find Annoying

He’s not perfect. Maybe he’s always leaving wet towels on the floor, shoes in random places, or spills crumbs all over the couch. While it’s...

The Top 5 Worst Sexual Habits

You may think you've learned a thing or two about what men enjoy in the bedroom. But have you ever stopped to think about...

5 Ways You Might Be Self-Sabotaging Your Relationships

There are a lot of reasons your relationships might not be working out, but there's one you may not have considered. It's possible that...

Being Your Authentic Self

Both men and women have this weird and actually pretty detrimental habit of being on their best behavior when meeting someone new or trying...

Getting Your Soulmate Back

The Relationship Carousel: How to Jump Off Before It Takes You for Another Ride

It's far too easy to get stuck in a pattern with our relationships. They begin to blur together --- each one starting and ending...

What’s Repairable, and What’s Not

I would love to tell you that every relationship can be saved. It's the happily-ever-after story we've been spoon fed our whole lives. True love...

Exes are Exes for a Reason, But When Should We Try Again?

We all know that exes are exes for a reason. With some exes, the reasons are readily apparent. We may have dealt with infidelity,...

So, It’s Over… Now What?

There's little as disheartening as being disappointed in love or heartbroken. When a relationship draws to a close, we're often left wondering what we're...

When You’re Heartbroken and Want Them Back

There are plenty of reasons why there are tons of songs about heartbreak and missing the one you love. A broken heart is incredibly...

Mining the Strength of Broken Hearts

There's a common misconception that having a broken heart makes us less desirable partners and weaker individuals. The thinking behind this idea is that...

Your Confidence and Happiness

How to Be Sexy (It Has Nothing to do with How You Look)

It’s been a while since Justin Timberlake brought sexy back, and yet there are too many of us who don’t feel sexy at all....

How to Cultivate Happiness for One When We’d Rather Have a Table for Two

There’s little more annoying as a single person than having every coupled human telling us that we need to just be happy being single. After...

Forget These Ridiculous Expectations, Your Confidence Will Thank You

Ladies, confidence is key when it comes to getting and keeping a man. Keeping up your confidence can be really tough, though. There are...

You’re Not Too Damaged to Be Loved

Life is hard. Sometimes, it breaks us. Sometimes the breaks aren't easily healed and make us feel as though we're not capable of loving...

Growing Up Eccentric: One Woman’s Journey to Love Herself

Confidence in your true self is a major key for finding and keeping your soulmate. Not only does being confident look absolutely beautiful on...

5 Lies That Tank Your Confidence

Society is great at making up rules and standards that women must follow in order to appear beautiful. These societal laws are total lies,...

His Emotional Bank Account

The Truth about Mansplaining

With the rise of the term “mansplaining” men now get a lot of heat when they explain things and offer up their opinions. Is...

Dating Made Me Crazy—Until I Flipped the Script on The 7 Flaws

Dating is supposed to be fun, right? At least, I had always thought that it would be exciting. I just didn’t think the excitement...

Helping Him Help You

One of the tricks to filling his emotional bank account is allowing him to be there for you and help you. Yes, we know we’ve...

Things that Deplete His Emotional Bank Account

You know what depletes your emotional bank account. Maybe it is lying about stupid stuff, he's late for dinner (again), him talking about your...

Supporting His Mission Fills That Bank Account

One of the keys to making him realize that you are his Soulmate is when you discover and support his mission. While there are...

What Is an Emotional Bank Account?

You have a place where you keep your money, right? Your pay or other income is deposited into your account (or even your sock...